yI have a problem. When I am approached with the question, "Are you going to get a college degree when you are done with high school?" I always want to reply, "Why, yes, I am looking at getting a masters degree in Help Meet training."
Do you know how many opinions I could get on this subject? Too many. That is why I never answer the way I truly want. (Dont get me wrong. I am not anti-college. It's simply not for me..)
The question is, why aren't we looking at training more girls for their future careers as help meets?
And also, why do so many women degrade this calling as lowly, lazy, counter-cultural, or a failure for young girls? It is, indeed, no such thing. How do I know? Well, just ask the husbands of these successful Help-Meets. Do they lie?
I just finished reading "Preparing to be a Help Meet" by Debi Pearl. She is blessed with 40 years of a successful, help-meet career, and the wisdom that she has acquired over the years is quite beneficial. Her book is challenging, delightful, and enabling; whether or not you are college bound, married or unmarried. In her book, Debi touches on questions like: "What does a good guy really look for in a girl? Are you a Dreamer, Servant, or Go-to Gal? Do you know what to pray for your man-to-be? Should you tell a guy you like him? Can you know God's will in choosing a husband?" (taken from the back cover.)
Sound elementary? On the contrary. I am so glad I own it. I will most likely read, reference and quote it for years to come.
love Rahel